Stag night or hen night has its origin way back in the Middle Ages when bachelor parties were organised by the kings and crowned heads as a way to let loose and have fun. The idea then was that after a hard week of hard living they would be rewarded with a weekend of fun and games. The word for it today is “stag night” and is used mostly in North America, although England is also known for theirs. Why is it called a stag night? It’s actually an excuse for a night of drinking, gambling and other naughty things that usually happen at bachelor parties.
Why is it called stag night? For one thing, the night before he gets married is a time where the groom considers his future wife to be very important and may try to book her in any club he can find. So, once the wedding date is near he makes arrangements to get her to come to his party. This may include paying for her air tickets, her hotel rooms, flowers, limousines and other forms of accommodations. The idea is to show her that she is as important to the newly-wedded couple as he is.
Why do people have a stag night? In some cultures, bachelor and bride nights are held once in a month, in other cases it’s once every two months. It’s called stag night because the male member of the couple goes out with friends and has a very dry run of a party. The last night of the term may be the best night ever, and the groom may even make it a night to remember by having a good time and making sure no one gets too hurt. It may not be as carefree as you think.
When should I schedule a stag night? Anytime is a good time, though if you are having a last resort birthday party then it may have to be a bit later to be safe. The younger generation is more laid back these days, so planning a night or too early may not be a problem, but you don’t want to plan it when the party is on at a nightclub!
How much is a stag night? Stag night is traditionally much more casual than the type of party you may have in your own neighborhood. This is why it’s important to contact a local event organiser to handle things for you. The type of celebration you choose depends greatly on the age of the participants. The older the guests the more elaborate the night may get.
Where should I hold the party? A nice hall or private club would be ideal, as long as there’s room for everyone. It’s always good to have a dance floor, so renting a dance floor or bar might be a good idea. You can also hire a DJ or event organiser who specialises in stag nights to handle all the entertainment needs. There are many fun games to play and it’s always good to have a camera on hand for any fun photos of the night.
Who should be invited? Usually only close friends and family are invited to join in on the fun. Close male friends can enjoy being bachelor pad together, while mothers and daughters can relax and enjoy the good company. It’s best to send out invitations at least 2 weeks in advance. This way everyone has plenty of time to RSVP and make arrangements.
What are some fun stag night activities? Drinking games, strip shows, karaoke, and funny games are all common occurrences. In fact, you may even have one of these activities turn into a date! Some may prefer to have a dinner topper, and others may decide to just celebrate the night in some other manner, but either way, it’s best to have some fun before the big night.