Congratulations, you’re engaged! Now that you’ve said “yes” to your perfect partner, it’s time for one more important proposal: Your bridesmaid proposals. You can keep it short and sweet, or elaborate and gimmicky. Whichever way you choose to propose to your bridesmaids, make sure they know the VIP status they hold in your life and, hopefully, on your big day. So, either in person or in a note, tell them how much their relationship means to you, share some memories, and explain why they are so deserving of a spot in your wedding squad.
Need some creative inspiration? Bridesmaid proposals don’t need to be fancy, but if you can afford to, set aside a small portion of your budget for them. Your friends are giving their time and effort to help you out until your big day, so give them something back right from the start with a thoughtful and memorable proposal. Don’t fret if budgets are tight: proposals can fit all kinds of budgets. If you have a smaller entourage, sending tokens is a good, budget-friendly option. From personalized robes to custom-label bottles of vino, there are many potential gifts that won’t break the bank. (Some are even under $25!).
For larger bridal parties, it may be more financially sound to throw a group event like wine night at your place or a floral arrangement class (with a group discount).
This is an exciting experience to share with your friends, so don’t forget to have fun! If you’ve always wanted to get your crew together for game night or a mani-pedi date, now is definitely the time to do it. You do want your bridesmaids to be both comfortable and interested in whatever creative proposal you concoct, so remember to take their interests and schedule into account. Book them weeks in advance if you have to and be flexible if they’re more comfortable in a one-on-one setting. If you make them feel special and throw them a proposal to remember, they’re sure to say “Yes!” to you.
Michela Buttignol/Brides
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